I really have to wonder, John Kenn, why you are here complaining. Our studio has been engaged with Reaper since its inception. We love watching the product blossom into a full-blown audio engineering tool. We appreciate that the guys at Cuckos listen to the user community and have designed a tool suitable for professionals and experienced amateurs so we can run our studio in a productive manner. We love all the new enhancements and the fact that our requests get handled in a timely manner. Bug fixes are usually remedied in one day and we enjoy seeing our suggestions incorporated into new updates.
Then, John Kenn, there are users like you who complain, complain, complain. If you are lacking audio engineering skills to the point that you don't even understand the basic terminology, then read some good books, take a short course, or align yourself with more experienced people in your local community. Audio engineering and music production is very technical and requires some hard study.
Reaper is designed with the professional user in mind and there's many folks in the Reaper user community who are professionals. This is one of the joys of using Reaper: it gets the job done.
If you find Reaper too difficult to use, John Kenn, then why not find another software tool that you do like? A lot of companies have come out with home studio versions or watered down their original professional-grade product (*gasp*) for people like you.
It takes years of study and practice to become a skilled audio engineer. Instead of complaining about a great piece of software that has a large user base, you will make more friends and gain more respect if you study one aspect of audio engineering, master it, then tackle the next step. I started with recording analog, then moved to MIDI when the technology became available, and now I am ramping up from using my digital tracker with all its faders and knobs to software-only. I am the last of the ones in our studio to go 100% software on the recording side, but I am a diehard analog synth enthusiast (and a bass player with a tube head) so that's my excuse.
Good luck, John Kenn. Study hard and master the terminology. One step at a time in sequence (no pun intended).