ok, I can see why it would seem confusing to someone that's not done this before.
The way it generally works is... If you're scoring for film/video, in other words adding sound to pre-existing visuals, then Sonar is a great tool to use and this thread should be in either the Sonar forum or Techniques forum. You take the edited (or partially edited) video, import it into a Sonar project and add sound/music as required to match the video.
But, when shooting a music vid (which is what you say you're going to be doing) you start with the finished (or mostly finished) audio and shoot video to match it which you then edit and sync to the audio using a video editor. Sonar is not involved once the finish audio has been exported.
Here's one I did earlier... Actually 2 months ago now, but that's earlier, isn't it?
The song was recorded, mixed and rough mastered on Saturday afternoon. Then all the video was shot single camera on Sunday afternoon, with playback of the audio track in .MP3 from an iPad. All the video and the final audio track in .WAV was then loaded into Final Cut for editing.