I use Corsair Obsidian 550D cases. I really like them for the most part. The only thing I'd probably change would be to make it wider for more space behind the motherboard and less optical spots in favour of more HDD spaces.
I got my wife a Fractal Design Define R4 which is basically the case I want design wise but it uses more plastic on it than my 550D's and I find the components aren't as good. Lots of little details such as I love that my 550D has toolless hard drive holders.
The other thing you should look into is fans that are actually silent. Everything in my cases is now Noctua. They are expensive but well worth the money. Absolutely silent case/cpu fans.