I don't know guys....if you read her first post (I've read it 4 times just to make sure I "got it") I think it's quite credible, wouldn't you say? She mentions:
"Of course, I'm not talking about many, many of the kind, productive contributors here, and I'm sure they aren't offended. I'm talking to the armchair brave who snip and quip at others whom they would well not treat in such a manner if personally present."
That means none of you guys in the coffee house fit that bill. This is a much different world down here than it is up stairs. You can pretty much get away with saying just about anything to you guys here and you all take it and make jokes out of it. It's very relaxed, playful and in my years here, those of you in the CH here have helped thousands up stairs...so if you totally remove yourselves from her post, don't you think it has some merit no matter who she is or where she's from?
It doesn't matter to me whether she's a she, a male, living in Sweden or in the USA. I think the post was credible. Was it called for? In her mind it was, but that's not for me to decide. I must say though, I've seen everything she's mentioned. I also have to admit, the way she worded it made me sick because, well, it made me realize how much of the english language there is that I don't use as well as how grammatically incorrect I am. LOL! That's just my jealousy talking though. :) (That's not meant to be a dig, Carissa...I'm envious and admit to talking and typing like a cave man)
I think what it all comes down to is, if you are a new user just coming here, reading some of the comments we see from time to time can really put a person off or even intimidate them from posting or asking a question. A post that well-worded like hers also makes it a bit more acceptable to me. Am I missing something somewhere? I'm not taking sides or trying to be confronational, I just kinda felt she spoke the truth to those that fit that mold.