thank you again, everyone. the last few days have physically and emotionally worn me out trying to coordinate arrangements with her estranged husband and freeloader. oops. did I say that out loud? (he's responsible for everything but has no money for anything).
anyway. the funeral will be in Tennessee but not until a week from tomorrow, so I'm still in TX for now. we already had plane tickets for TN for the 24th thru the 29th, so I said that the funeral be held during the time we were already scheduled to be there.