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RTFM
How is that rude? That's how we learned what we know. It IS the best way to learn the small details of our profession is it not?
No, RTFM is not, in itself rude. Some may be offended by the "F" component, but I'm not, and I doubt many others around here are either. RTFM is also very good (if rather obvious) advice. My only point is that I've so often seen it used as a way to dismiss the validity of a question, as well as insult the intelligence or integrity of the questioner. And then the name-calling (which really IS offensive IMHO) begins. Anyone who reads these threads knows that this does happen here on a recurrent basis.
And besides, the "F" word is still universally considered a far stronger expletive than the three letter word for donkey, regardless of whether one is bothered by either of them or not.
Edit: Well said, both Glazfolk and almeister. This is OT, and I'm done ranting now. Peace.