What
Mike is saying is very important re SPL levels too and I have not been talking about that much at all, mainly what goes on inside your DAW. But it not just about SPL levels either, it is whole way of life inside your DAW. Why not take right back into that and hence into tracking correctly. No harm because it just works great.
re tracking if you talked to some famous engineers eg Bob Clearmountain or David Pensado etc about tracking this is what I think you would find:
These guys when tracking would be using a pretty decent analog console and there would be VU meters in that situation. (not just on the output but more than likely on every input channel too, very nice!!)
So when they are setting input levels you can bet your boots they would be using a VU meter to do it. It is easy fast and accurate. If the console and the DAW are calibrated correctly then that level would just appear in the DAW at the right level.
You don't need an expensive console to do it though. A decent hardware VU meter attached to your input and monitoring console will do the job nicely. And if you don't want to go down that route there are some nice VU VST's that will allow you to get it right in the all digital world too.
Mike (slightly OT) I have studied the harmonic relationships with toms quite a bit and they are interesting too. They are all bunched up and very close together and they all rise up and peak and fall on the other side too. When you measure the frequency of the loudest ones and then re tune the drums to suit the key of the song the drums can all sound better.
(yes I agree rather fiddly to do and if there are key changes things get tricky too but you can compromise though)