Rimshot
I was a player in 70's and 80's.
A bench warmer in the 90's.
A quarter player/benchwarmer in the 00's.
A half player/benchwarmer in the 2010's
A half wit player that loves to play and sing and not so much a bench warmer but my day job keeps me from really playing ALL the time.
So I think that makes me a play-bench warmer?
Maybe a full time player in my heart that has to sit down more than in previous years?
Yeah, that's it.

Hello Rimshot,
say, that sounds kind of like my story
it wasn't exactly an E ticket Disney Ride , yet it was a Roller-coaster ride….
yeah , we might get older and maybe even change all of our goals to fit the changing landscape of life itself .
imho, as far as what people do or what they have done , nobody can take that away from anybody ...

have a good one ,
Kenny