OOOPS I didn't have my glasses on! So Excuse this minor7 flat 5 rant. See below.....
For me the simplest use is to think of it as a 9th/3( G9/B =G 9th chord over a B bass), ie Bm7b5 works great as a movement/stepping up from G or G7(so the root of your minor7 flat5 goes on the 3rd of whatever your Dominant 7th chord is. So I think of it as a lift to a leading tone chord (ie G7 to C in the key of C)
One of the most common uses of it would be on the #4 or b5 position, like in God Only Knows where Bb minor7 flat5 "pushes or leads into" ( on the phrase "sure about it") Amaj7th of the chorus. This same use occurs in Cole Porters Night and Day (I'll have to check the lyrics to indicate where/when this one shows up), though it goes into a 4 minor (vs a 4 major).
In Clapton's Change the World or Because by the Beatles it is used as 2 chord following a 1 minor chord. Both of these examples happen to use C#m into D#m7 flat 5 going to G#7.
So, if you're using it in A minor, then 2 = Bm7 flat5 and it leads to E7, where you might have been playing D minor instead.
I like using them- the Dominant 7 #5, as a variation on the augmented chord. They add some spike-y ness to an already edge-y chord. So, switching from an A7 or A aug to an A7 #5 sounds pushy to me. I love how they are used in Spanish guitar music and latin stuff.
If you use it on the 2nd degree of the scale, it really emphasizes things and then you can use it again, on the 5 chord. It's like a 9th chord on the 5th degree, but sharp -up a fret, so it slides into the 5th nicely and then you can sharp the 5 of that one, too!
The Minor 7 #5 always feels "temporary". I don't think of using it much, but mostly use it as part of some kind of movement "during" that chord.
Nice work on your Falling Leaves track, and great tone on the guitar.
Michael