I never worried much about pick ups - from the moment I finally put my hands on my first US strat, and loved the sound, I figured it was okay.
Moving back to Les Paul's (Epi) a few years ago meant going back to humbucker - after decades of single coils, it took a while (and a few other guitars) for me to learn to try and appreciate the differences, besides the thicker, louder sound. And the Les Paul particularities itself had to be factored in as well.
As far as I can tell, the pick ups on my SG are much quieter than those on my Epiphones, but they're also more detailed and thinner. So if I wanted to make them smoother/warmer, I guess I'd have to bring them down a bit - but since they're already on the quieter side, I'm not sure I want to go there.
As for my preferences - as I once mentioned, judging from my very limited experience, of all my guitars, I seem to like the sound of my LP Traditional which is loaded with Epiphone's copy of a '57 and a copy of a Burstbucker. It's hard for me to make abstraction of what's coming from the LP and what's strictly a matter of pick ups. But, if I could chose, the sound I'm after for the SG would be somewhere in between that of my LP Traditional and that of my SG for the definition.