serious thread -
 
my mother in law had a major stroke 2 1/2 years ago and has been unable to feed herself, clothe herself, go to the bathroom, etc.  she's been completely dependent on my wife, her sister and my father in law to take care of her.  she had dementia before the stroke and that was scary.
 
now she's constantly having seizures unless we keep her sedated.  she's at home after her last visit to the hospital and is receiving 1/day hosp-ice care.  she had a bad night last night and they're asking for 24 hour hosp-ice at this point.  she hasn't eaten anything except applesauce with her medication in a week and a half and hasn't had anything to drink in 1/2 week.
 
I keep thinking that "it won't be long now" but she still hangs in there.
 
it's a very very sad situation.  I've never experienced "hosp-ice."  I knew what it was, but until you experience it, then you really don't know what it is.
 
I"m sure there's no answer I'm looking for, and not even looking for sympathy.  just expressing my sadness at the situation of sending someone home to "be comfortable."
 
 
EDIT:  I am appalled that "hosp-ice" is censored.  unbelievable that they can't fix the censor log to allow words that INCLUDE those letters but have nothing to do with the derogatory slang!

My condolences Beagle.
 
Rocky

Sorry to hear that Beags......it is a sad situation that unfortunately comes with age. I also had close family members that went through similar condition and it's never easy to come to grips with it. She's fortunate to have good family support in making her as comfortable as you possibly can and I'm certain she's included in your prayers. A strong supporting family is priceless, and I hope things tun out for the very best for your mother in law  and your family.

thanks guys.  it's really difficult to see her like this.  she used to be so active and full of life.

Sorry to hear about your mother-in-law's situation.  My best wishes to her.  
 
The software censorship is despicable.  

My heart goes out to you, Mrs Beagle and all of the family.
 
Just remember, my friend...... we are here for you.

thank you gents

Sorry to read that, Beagle. 
 
A few times in my life, I've had to cope with people hanging in there for such a long time.  It was heart-breaking to see them go on with no possible hope for recovery, sometimes completely stripped of their dignity, but still hanging in. 
 
Best wishes to you and to your family.
 

Beagle
 just expressing my sadness at the situation of sending someone home to "be comfortable."
 

Don't be sad, Reece. It's a matter of acceptance, really.
You know what's coming, and so does she. Be glad she can spend this time in a familiar and comfortable environment, with the family. I can think of no better way to close the curtain on a long and glorious play.
We did in-home hospice with my first wife. It wasn't necessarily easy, but it was the right thing to do.
She said her goodbyes in the comfort of our home, and when the time came, she was happy, and ready to go.
Your family is strong, and has supported her all the way. She may not show it, but she needs that, and she trusts it.
When it's over, you'll be glad you had this time. Know that she is.
 

Sorry to hear about it Reece, stay strong!