Hey olemon, you could always do what I do using ezd. I use an instance for each group. Lol! It sucks creating it for the first time, but after you create it the initial time you can save it as a template and it loads right up. For example, I'll use one module for kick and snare, another for hats, one for toms, one for crashes and one for ride.
That said, ezd 2 has improved things drastically for the better and if you own certain kits, you can use their template that comes with them. For example their latest metal kit gives you individual Tom channels and control instead of single's. If you use the template for that and remove all the sounds, you can use the sounds you have from the other libraries.
If anything, get their latest metal kit just for the mix template that comes with it. It gives you a lot more options than the other kits for creating virtual tracks in Sonar. Good luck!
-Danny