Bluegrass and folk doesn't use them and the Grand Ole Opry didn't allow them until several years back.....
Drums where likely the very first musical instruments conceived in the mind of man....... so they have a long history.....
Hey, it's like I tell people who don't like guns..... don't buy one. If you don't like drums...... don't use them.
I'm totally cool with or without drums in music depending on the genre of course..... me, personally, I mostly like and use them.