@Mantofini Well, I always anyway use post-fader. It doesn't solve my query, because if I lower the fader on the group bus, its not connected to the reverb, so it doesn't lower the reverb amount. Its the instrument itself (eg single drum piece) that is connected to the reverb, not the Group bus.
@synkotron You SHOULD be using post-fader ... that's the default, and for most purposes is what people will need. And above, when I mentioned bringing the Drums Bus down completely, I said that just to make the point that I would still hear the reverb of the drums instruments. Because changing the volume of the drums bus fader is not affecting the reverb at all.
Probably, I am not explaining myself very well :-)
But, in conclusion, how I see it is, if I'm bussing instruments to Groups, and those instruments require reverb, then I need to have one instance of my reverb per Group. I send all my drum pieces to the Drum Reverb, pads/strings to Pads/Strings Reverb etc, and those reverbs output is set to be their relevant group. Then the fader on each Group will control overall volume of instruments sent there, AND their reverb proportinately.