Feelings. Nothing more than feelings. feelings of Lub.

bapu

drewfx1
I thought that there was talk at some point that there was a hidden beta tester's forum.

No..... your thinking of the secret sub forum that contains my photo submissions for Playgirl.
 
TMI?

this is not the buffoon thread ... I thought smarty pants posts only belonged there

No one that is hear will keep me from "failing upwards"!
No, not at all.
 

spacealf
 
Hi,
 
No one that is hear will keep me from "failing upwards"!
No, not at all.
 

 
That's better.

soens

spacey
Here's my take on it;
 
You and Soens chose to make fun of the way I stated being upset...which insulted me.
 
I didn't try to "police" you guys. I made a simple statement about how I felt and it's only the truth.
 
The use of humor and how it's perceived is obviously something that can cause people to fall out.
Although I've avoided conversations about the topic, and will continue to, I do believe that the last example
of how it can end with bad results is not the first time and won't be the last.
 
If I felt there was something that I could offer to help avoid bad results, I would. Unfortunately I don't.

My apologies to you Mr. Spacey! I wasn't intending to make fun OF you at all. I was just trying to BE funny, period. One cannot always perceive how humor will be taken. So to that end I will refrain from using it.
 
Carry on, men.
 
Steve

Thank you Steve.
It was just a bad time.
I can understand how it may not be so apparent when somebody is very upset, as I was. So upset about that perverted ass making that comment directed at children that humor or play with words didn't go down good.
 
I guess the two issues being discussed in this thread both came about because if "timing".
Humor was in a serious thread about a banned member while folks were trying to get the full story and
humor was used in a serious thread about a pedophile posting. ( what he posted, how easy it was for him to post and how long it took to get rid of him and the post.)
 
Both unfortunately are examples of a problem with the use of "humor" that I can't change or know how to.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

soens
... 
Forget about it??! YOU forget about it!
 
No, YOU forget about it!
 
No, YOU forget about it!
 
No, YOU forget about it!
 
No, YOU forget about it!
 
No, YOU forget about it!
 
No, YOU forget about it!

DUCK SEASON!
 
WABBIT SEASON!

craigb
I say, if you don't want to see silly threads, then stay upstairs!

I AGREE... OK... after having read the rest of the thread I will say this. Often I come across a post or a thread that I don't care for. I move on because I like everyone here, though some have obviously different beliefs than I do... I still like the people. If I don't like it I don't participate. I try to not be offensive.
Personally, I need a place where I don't have to worry about posting nonsense or something stupid.. and I think most others do too. I am also thankful for it because a lot of things go right over my head and I post something that isn't that relevant because I didn't read the whole thread or I didn't "get it". We all get it wrong sometimes, we all say things that don't come out right but really, I think we need to be quick to give everyone else the benefit of doubt and slow to complain or judge. It will always go away.
I got offended by something a week or two ago and instead of complain, I blocked the person... then after a couple of days I unblocked them because I got over it. Like I said, I like everyone here and I REALLY don't want to see this place die or even change (for the worse). FWIW, I don't mind reading through nonsense. I can choose to move on if I don't want to read it... keep it coming.
I don't have any real specific suggestions because everyone is different and everyone thinks a little different AND things written online without personal interaction can so easily be taken the wrong way.
 
Beagle, shake it off and come home.
 
IDK... I think that so many things are misunderstandings that turn into something else. I just hope I don't do anything to make things worse.
 
IMO... Julien