In that case, before it goes too far........divorce this lawyer before she takes you for everything you have....including your beloved Sonar X-3d and Cakewalk products. If she truly loves you, she shouldn't be saying "huh" and grunting at your soft synths. She should be embracing them while inspiring you to........to........higher musical grounds.
You have to see what both are bringing to the table: you're bringing your musical prowess to her and she's bring her beauty and tractor to you. I see that you're willing to practice on the tractor, but she doen't seem to want to do anything with your soft synths. Com'on now......there's got to be a little give and take here no?
I only see her take.....take.......take......
Go to your beloved (faithful) Sonar X-3d.