craigb
This is exactly why my notifications have no sound. If I see the phone blink, then fine, otherwise my reply will just have to wait! I figured out how to set this in the middle of the night on the first night that I owned the phone. I couldn't stay asleep!
The trouble is that I have to respond to business related emails and texts pretty quickly, so I have to keep my alerts on. I put it on silent in the gym because I'm looking at it frequently but sometimes forget to turn it back on and around 11pm or so I'll suddenly realize only to find 20 or 30 urgent messages that I should have responded to 4 hours ago. I do, however, set it to "do not disturb" at night. That means no alert notifications, but it will ring if someone's calling me. I figure if someone calls me at 4am, it must be an emergency. Apple did a good thing with the do not disturb feature, but they should have done it years ago. BlackBerries always let you define different sound profiles for different situations and it was easy to switch between them. I had one for "out on the street," and others for "in a store," "at home" and "asleep."