Keni, you could sell everything and move to GA where, considering the comparative home prices etc... you could live like a king...
Seriously, CA is a nice place to visit but a great place to move away from.
You hang in there. Remember, things change. Sometimes things seem to be too much then in a little while you don't even remember the bad times.
I will PM you the rest o what I had to say...
Anyway, you're welcome in Georgia!!
Julien