I have the same problem with my Layla3G. I can only open one audio program at a time...or specifically the one that is opened first, is the only one that will play. I've messed with the "share programs" etc. Never had success.
It's nice to listen to a YouTube or a MP3 without importing into Sonar, WHILE Sonar is open... I like to get ideas, comparisons, etc.
The Layla is a PCI interface and I have just a built in one on the motherboard....which would be fine for simple playback. Since I can't get two to work at once (or Sonar plus anything else) , I typically just disable the cheapie one on the motherboard.
Interested in hearing solutions as well.