...That said, it's still easy for me to say how repulsive Rap music is to me personally, yet Trance is one of many styles/genres that I love and I know it's a complete turn-off for many others.
Depends. Rap as you know it in America, is not as creative and inventive as it is in Europe. The mixes and way it is used over there is more musical, than here. My neighbor, has been playing some new rap album, and I can not even tell who it is, but from a distance, you hear the bass drum and its changes ... that's it. There is absolutely nothing musical about it, or creative for that matter, and yet it sells.
So I blew out my neighbor one night at 3AM with Hawkwind (Electric Tepee, of course!!!!!) and the next day, I was asked what I was playing? I told him, something to shut up that music'less rap. He asked why I thought it wasn't good? I showed him my collection, and he went ... wow!
These youngsters simply have no idea. Few of them have heard anything else, so it's very easy for them to think that is it in music, because it is all they know.
So I played some rap from 1968 ... Gil Scott Heron ... and now, if you don't get it ... you are not listening! It made sense then, specially when it was used in the film "Performance", but all in all it has become nothing but a bunch of musicless money for the most part. Not to say that the folks doing are not good, or creative, but there is a lot more they could do that they are not doing, and that's their concern, not yours or mine!
1) Are you one of those that pretty much stay in a small, focused area of music? Or do you like a wide range of genres and styles?
If you are focused on one area, then you are not into music! You are into your favorites. This is a very important distinction ... you can not say that you love music, and then Mosh plays some god-forsaken guitarist from Norway, and you will NEVER ... EVER ... listen to it, because you have no idea what "music" really means ... all you have is a selective taste and understanding, and if someone else uses it differently, all of a sudden it is not music for you! That's screwed up to the max, dude!
I say this a lot to all the folks here, who are musicians, and it scares them when their center is an idea, not a reality. I can see where some of the folks here have to keep their tastes in line with their friends, and band because they are playing the Red Lion circuit or whatever. I'm ok with that, but don't go around defending that you know "music" because you know the notes and the scales! That, by itself, is not quite what music is about, or you would be out dating Emily and having some sex if you could with a machine!
2) What are your favorite types/genres/styles? ...
NONE.
ALL.
You either appreciate the flow and the beauty that music does for you, or you are not into music, you are into an idea that supposedly inspires you, and one day you will drop it, because it doesn't. It's boring. It's repetitive.
I specially find it pretentious when someone says that they are putting together something "progressive", when in effect all they are doing is bending their likes and dislikes to conform with something that is an idea, and not a reality. Same with "rock'n'roll", which is more about an attitude than it is about the notes and the music design itself, but people that don't have it inside, will always follow a book, or an idea.
You have to decide, if you are empty inside or not. Are you afraid to learn what that guitar can do when you meet that other inside you? And the answer is that most folks ARE AFRAID, because it could hurt this or that, or their band or their whatever situation. The problem is, that person is not aware that it could just as easily be the opposite, except that you do not have the ability, desire, or courage to take that step.
The word "music" is not just notes and scales and staff. The minute you start on that, you have forgotten why you love it so much, and are no longer listening to it!
Simple!
And the style doesn't matter. Your attitude and selective process is the problem!