Old55
I know it's a cliche, but I would suggest that you take advantage of every visit you can with your brother while you have the chance because you never know what the future holds--and Bubba ain't sayin' about the personal stuff. Seriously, I've had a few close calls this year health-wise and vouch for the cliche's accuracy.
I agree wholeheartedly, and, actually, once every 3 years already requires that we jump on every opportunity. But we just live at opposite ends of the continent not to mention the fact that he is a total rolling stone - he's on the road since last month and for at least another 6 months. So it's not like we can just drop over at each other's place for the weekend. It usually involves plane tickets, car rentals, hotel rooms and a whole lot of planning.
I know people often hate Facebook but I'll tell you this much - it really allowed me and my brother to get back in touch and more importantly STAY in touch. We used to exchange a few e-mails a year. But then life goes on and you postpone replying, and time flies... It wasn't uncommon that 8 or 10 months would go by without me knowing where in the world he was. With Facebook, I get instant news every couple of days, pictures and quick updates.
Obviously it's not the deepest form of communication, but, it's complementary and, imho, almost as essential. All the little things and the insignificant moments, all the things that don't make into more formal e-mails or phone calls. Whose got time to write lengthy personalized e-mails on an iPhone while on a back packing trip in South America, anyway?