I know the odds stack up pretty favourably that life, and even intelligent life, exist elsewhere.
But my personal feeling is that it might be not quite as common as the statistics suggest.
As far as we can tell, and given what must have been pretty conducive environmental conditions, life has only actually begun
once on Earth. Every organism on this planet (including the 98% of all species that have become extinct) can be traced (or at least, logically deduced) back to a single origin. The proof is there in the basic genetic makeup common to all organisms.
If the conditions for life were/are abundant throughout the Universe - in other words the very conditions in which life got going here - then it might reasonably be argued that life might have started discretely in more than one form on Earth.
Unless, of course, the uniqueness on Earth of the life we find here (i.e. with a biochemistry based on RNA/DNA) might actually be the
only way life
can exist. Again, if this is the case, that might also bring down the probability of it starting elsewhere.
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