I'm reading these through WAY after the fact but I've got both a VS-100 and an A-PRO300 and haven't had any of these problems. Part of the problem may be that folks are running the installers or launching Sonar with Admin level privleges?
As far as the A-Pros go I agree with many many others who have pointed out that the included and the available online documentation for these units absolutely suck! I have to wonder whether Cakewalk or Roland outsourced the job of writing the A-Pro guides to the staff at Behringer. I've purchased a LOT of midi hardware over the years since I purchased my first Cakewalk software and up until now I'd nominate Behringer for the absolute worst documentation and tech support I've ever seen. (I've been a computer/network technician for over thirty years) If it wasn't for a giving person on this forum named A.J., my BCR2000 would have shared the same fate as the laser printer in the movie "Office Space." (I sent him a small donation but his help exceeded the value of the unit itself.) There are some brilliant people on these forums!