I feel much better that I'm not the only one who has done something like this. I appreciate the input from an alpha angle.It makes me feel much better. Bapu I'm not exactly sure what a scounce is. I guess sometimes there's no avoiding it .If mama ain't happy ain't nobody happy.
I appreciate all of those who offered to provide a temporary alternate place. The fallout has been temporarily averted.
The story has a semi-good ending. We still had old messages on the internet answering system dating from 09'. I managed to find two messages from her dad. I sent them to her email and she was elated to still have those voice recordings of her dad. This seemed to patch things up pretty well. Old55 I was out of luck on that answering machine so I'm glad I found those older messages. I went back to using my internet answering service. That way messages can be saved as long as my cable company has a working database.