Thanks to all for the input. You've got me thinking about aspects that I haven't considered. Normally I'm going for a natural sounding mix but my prog rock influences have me throwing in curve balls occasionally.
Adam, Mark (sorry), thanks for taking the time to listen to some of my songs. Most of those are pretty old and I don't have the raw tracks, so I can't go back and try a remix. Plus, I'd rather look forward. (BTW, feeding the cats is also my job!)
Right now I'm trying to finish up a brand new song that's a much simpler arrangement- (Cakewalk-SI) drums, rhythm guitar, (synth) flute, and lead vocal. In keeping with my usual "can't leave well enough alone" habit, I also recorded a bunch of harmony and background vocals for the last verse, chorus, and fadeout. I'm debating whether I want to keep them or not. The song has a nice casual feel throughout without them, but when they come in I can't decide whether it sounds really cool or really dated (think the band America, who I loved back in the 70's.) I think I'll post both versions and "let the people decide".
Anyway, I think I'll try freezing those synths dry and using a common reverb for all of the elements to try and get a live recording feel.
A question: I'm also just now exploring the virtues of using busses, so correct me if this is wrong: The way to do this would be to have a bus just for the "room" verb (with the mix set to 100% wet) and then route the other busses to the room bus using the aux sends, post fader? That way I can control the overall amount of reverb with that one fader independent of everything else?
Doug