Well It finally looked like I got them all using a combo of IE10 and FreeDownloadManager. Only perhaps I didn't as the different instruments/patches either play fine, not at all or play but can't be controlled at all by the Kontakt GUI. I'm starting over today using only IE10 and downloading one link at a time. We'll see. George Strezov has been very helpful and responsive and so I'm trying to do the same. Maybe my troubleshooting will help a few others with their downloads. Who knows?
EDIT AND UPDATE!
Everything working dandy now. It turns out that some patches have to have the mod wheel turned up all the way at least once before they'll play AND some patches have the Kontakt GUI controls disabled for better performance...although it's concerning to so many that George says they'll probably change that in a 1.1 update.
This is one great and unique sounding library. Well worth it.