I meant to answer to this thread before and forgot! For some reason, metal bands (at least my understansing of them) wanted to have that tough look. Metal was mean so you had to look mean. I never thought of it that way. I've always smiled in all the bands I've been in other than when I was told "dude, you gotta look mean!" I used to fight that all the time because let's be honest...
There's no reason for me to look/act mean unless I'm mad. I'm not mad, I feel blessed to be able to wake up in the morning and have a little musicality in my life as well as a wide array of instruments to play. The fact that I can walk, move my hands, see, hear and speak, makes me even more happy. Why on earth would I need to show someone I'm mad when in fact, I'm bursting with happiness?
That said, some of the guys doing those goofy poses are doing them purposely. When you get a name for yourself, people sort of accept you and take what you give them. Then again, if all the metal bands thought like me....they would kinda look rediculous if they were all smiling like I usually do. LOL! They may be labeled something else...and that wouldn't be cool if it weren't true.
I'm happy....just about 98% of the time I am. I have no problems showing.sharing my happiness. If it reflects something in pictures to where people think differently about me, so be it. Come see a show. :)
Speaking of that...Starise, I'm in Bensalem Saturday night at Parx Casino doing the Van Halen show. Not sure how close that is to you, but it's a great place to see the band. Great stage, great sound...really nice surrounding. Short notice I know...but figured I'd pass it on. :)
-Danny