This is good news your are off and running now just keep us up to date and it will work.
As said above install the ASIO drivers and use those, Sonar runs best with ASIO driver mode.. MME is the very worst driver of them all Use only the Audiobox as your audio device. You do not want the realtech at all.
And what scook said about not having anything as your midi output as this allows you to simply OPEN any midi file and it will load TTS-1 and automatically set everything up to play the file as it was composed.