Sharke said:
"Any feeling could be described as "legitimate" simply by virtue of it having been felt by someone. The trouble is that feelings are frequently not based upon objective fact, or reasonable trains of thought, or even a rational set of values. For example, people "mourning" the loss of Sonar and acting like some tremendous tragedy has been inflicted upon them need to get a grip of their lives. You only have to turn on the news to realize how pathetic it is. Here in New York the other day there was an apartment fire which wiped out 12 people, some of them kids. When I read stories like that and then go online and read some of the self-centered, melodramatic rants people are posting about the news that some dispensable, replaceable piece of software will no longer receive updates, it kind of annoys me. I guess my feelings are legitimate too, yes? "
Of Course feelings are not based on objective fact. They're feelings. They have little to do with "reasonable trains of thought, or even a rational set of values." Besides which, reasonable to whom? You? You are the standard by which others' feelings are to be judged? You determine what values are rational? Since you've got it all figured out, please let us in on the secret, so we can order, structure and reason our lives into perfectly rational trains of thought, and stop having these bothersome, irrational things called feelings. Sheesh. I would think that a musician, of all people, would not be one to lecture us like this.
Your other points are valid. But you're way, way off base on this one.