bitflipper
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Day One
Today is Day One of my new life. My personal chronology will forever be divided into two chapters: everything that occurred before yesterday and everything that came after.
That's because last night my closest confidant, my muse, my soul mate and wife of 38 years was thankfully freed from the pain and agony of her cancer.
Today I will be surrounded by the family that I'm now the newly-appointed patriarch of. Lots of great people to share in my grief. But this morning I have retreated to the quiet of my studio to gather my thoughts. Six children and 19 grandchildren will need me to be their rock today. I will console them, reassure the youngest ones that grandpa ain't going anywhere yet. I will help organize tomorrow's Thanksgiving dinner and tell them we still have things to be thankful for. I will call the oxygen people to come pick up the tanks that line my garage. I will cancel her cellphone account and make funeral arrangements and take her clothes from the dryer.
That'll all happen later. Right now I am staring at my silent speakers. I know that music will come out of them again. Just not today.
 All else is in doubt, so this is the truth I cling to. My Stuff
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Wookiee
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My thoughts go out to you and your family at this time of loss, may you find that strength, that I feel you have, to move on. Know we are here for you as well if you need us.
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Karyn
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Have a big hug from me Dave.
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My deepest sympthies Dave. I also just lost my father to liver cancer a few weeks ago and know it's a difficult time for all involved. I certainly will be adding her as well as you in my prayers.
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quantumeffect
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My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family Dave.
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I'm so sorry to hear that, Dave, but I am glad she is no longer suffering.
I'm sure you and the family will miss her very much. My thoughts and prayers for you and the family.
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spacealf
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Best Wishes for you and Peace.
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kakku
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I am so sorry to hear this. I wish you strength.
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Randy P
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Dave, You've shown an astounding level of grace. That probably seems hollow right now, but it's true. Keep your head up my friend. My thoughts are with you.
Randy
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spacey
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All my best wishes for you and your family Dave.
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My best wishes for you and your entire extended family.
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Hi Dave:
My wife passed 15 years ago. (ovarian cancer)
I know it's little condolence right now but it does get better with time.
those grand kids will help :)
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So sorry to hear the news Dave, please accept my condolences in this trying time. Try and remember that things will get better with time.
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So sorry Dave. Even through this impersonal medium I can tell you're a good man; you will be their rock, but allow yourself time to grieve.
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So sorry to hear that, Dave.
All my best wishes to you and your family.
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I am so sorry for your loss Dave. What a family! May this second half of your life be filled with peace and love for all your family.
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So sorry to hear of this loss. My thoughts are with you and all of yours.
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Keep the faith, ol pal. Stay strong. Rock on.
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My thoughts are with you and your family Dave.
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My heart is with you Dave.
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57Gregy
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So sorry to hear that, Bit.
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dmbaer
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Peace, my friend. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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kennywtelejazz
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Dave ,
Reading your post just took me by surprise and I feel a lump in my throat …
I had no idea that you were such a solid family person or that you had such a large extended family ….
38 years with your wife soul mate … that is such a blessed relationship …
You have managed to do and have everything I wish I could have done and failed at .
My Heart goes out to you for the loss of your wife …
Kenny
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Jeff M.
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Sorry to hear about your loss, Bit.
Stay strong.
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Dave I am so sorry to hear of your loss. It sounds like you were blessed - very few people can claim to have met their soul mate, let alone lived with them for 38 years. You have my full condolences.
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Bob Oister
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Sincere heartfelt condolences, Dave. Sending good thoughts, prayers and best wishes to you and your family. Stay strong, my friend, she'll always live on in your heart and your wonderful music.
Bob
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Peace, strength, and comfort to you, Dave.
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Dave Modisette
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I am sad for you. Your post was very touching.
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michaelhanson
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Dave, I will pray for peace and healing for you and your family.
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