The Apple App Store has a Remote Desktop app that lets you connect to a Windows Desktop as a remote desktop and run anything, including (to get to the point) Sonar. This obviously should let you drive Sonar with the iPad's touch screen (maybe multiple touch rather than a single one like a mouse) over WiFi, I assume.
Has anyone tried this? I would get an iPad for any number of reasons, but if it's effectively a control surface for Sonar with possibly multiple fingers on faders (as an example) I'd get one. You don't need any special apps on the iPad to do this, just the Remote Desktop app that lets you drive anything on the Windows box. You need Windows Professional AFAIK, so Home users would need an upgrade.