Craig,
The only problem with your analogy is that the last three times I lost the keys, they were never in the Living Room and two sets are still missing.
The computer performs the same with either on board video or graphics card. This is not 1996, the vast majority of graphics cards play well with others. This is a dedicated DAW which I have played some games on, but none are currently installed. I got the video card so I could use three monitors.
I tested the Firewire interface vs the USB and I'm getting lower latency, better utilization with the firewire (was using the usb), however even with firewire adding inserts increases cpu.
This mobo has a good firewire chipset and native PCI slots, and really low DPC latency, some of the reasons I have not upgraded. This setup is at the lowest latency allowed with reported 3.7ms round trip latency. I can obviously increase buffers but the surprising point is that simple audio routing, the External Inserts and the Channel Tools plugs, use significant cpu in sonar.
At higher buffer settings I am able to load up projects with 80+ instances of assorted plugs, many of them heavy. This computer is enough for my needs; my concerns are more around operation at low latency and my disappointment that routing plugins use significant CPU.