Hi Guys, I'm not a specialist but I had the same problem and I might have found some kind of solution.
The issue here is not that Sonar renders at a lower lever but it playbacks about 6 db higher than media players.
So If you want a more realistic playback you might lower your master level at -6 db and get it back on zero before rendering or if as me you have done your mixing already then move your master all the way up to 6 db and the rendering will be at standard volume.
I found this because after I render my mix inside Sonar And found it ok, then I looked for the audio file and actuality sounded lower outside sonar, so the the problem could not be the file but that Sonar playbacks louder.
I have heard recommendations about mixing at a lower volume or importing your reference tracks. This might be one of the reasons why.