Yes , I know the Pain Well

it can be very frustrating to have posts thrown in the trash for no apparent reason ...
I had that happen twice a couple of days ago ...
One thing that I did learn that would be helpful for you to consider ...
When and if you do decide to ask a forum host for help .
.do as I say here now .... not as I did 

I kept asking a very helpful forum host for help in getting my missing posts back up posted on the forum ..
He bent over backwards to help me at least a dozen times so far ...
He said something in a PM that hadn't crossed my mind ...
He mentioned to me that it would make his job much easier if I would just name the title of the thread or post a link to the thread where my post got muched

like I said ..I was making it unnecessarily hard for him to help me ...
I have since changed my Evil Way's
good luck , all the best ,
Kenny