We're not all having exactly the same problems, but many of us are definitely crippled when trying to utilize our UAD investment with Sonar X3.
Your communication with Cakewalk has been more recent than mine, and I find it interesting that they are now telling you they think it's a "system specific problem or configuration issue"...when they told me back on November 21st that my difficulties are due to a few things they planned to address in the next update or two.
I had been giving Cakewalk the benefit of the doubt, but if they are going to, as you suggest, "kick the can down the road on UAD problems," they are going to lose me. Through direct communication with both UA and Cakewalk, I had been led to believe that UA was taking charge and would be delivering a solution, but the more I think about it, Cakewalk certainly has a role in this bad situation, because the UAD system works with X2, but not X3.
It would be nice to hear from UA and Cakewalk that "we are in communications and are both working together on a solution", but I haven't heard that from either yet.