Thanks for all the suggestions...I'm working through them. Here are the results from tonight's tests:
I installed X3D, then created a 2 minutes Kontakt 5 Midi file in a new project. It rendered in about 15 seconds. I went back to the project i was working on with the 14 hour render, and picked a shorter midi track and started rendering it. After 10 minutes it was about 5% done. I made no audio settings changes from the new project to the old one.
I reset the audio configuration and tried again with the same results.
I tried a different project and a midi file about the same length as the troubled project track and it rendered in less that 30 seconds.
Help me think this through...if audio settings or the aud.ini file are the culprit, wouldn't i have the slow render problem with both projects not just the old one? I will still go back and make a careful comparison and delete the aud.ini.
So far it looks like the problem is in the project itself. Two different softsynth tracks with the same extremely slow render. I still have over 80GB hd space on the drive. The memory looks like its only taking about 25%. If its an issue with this particular project, then I am in for an immense amount of work to fix it, since it contains over 30 softsynth tracks.
So trying to think ahead if this project can't be rendered to audio, is there an easier way that writing down all the synths and patches used and copying the midi tracks into a new project and re-inserting all of the softsynths? I bet I would still loose all my automation.