Well after a frustrating week or so, it seems like some sort of miracle occurred and available instrument and FX plugins are playing nice with Sonar Platinum. Like Mike V said above a couple posts a little housekeeping can't hurt and I managed to get my list of vst paths down to three:
C:\Program Files (x86)\vstplugins
C:\Program Files\Common Files\VST3
C:\Program Files\vstplugins
For those of you with Native Instrument software, they have a neat little program used to put all of their 32 and 64 bit vsts in any folder you want. So with all the flotsam and jetsam left behind by the Department of Redundancy Department (old Firesign Theater fans may remember this little joke), it seems that every thing is running smoothly again. Waves AAS, NI, Izotope and the rest are all making nice-nice with Cakewalk. A huge thanks to those who took the time to try to help.